“Conservative” Religion

Senator McCarthy once told world-renowned British author and journalist, Christopher Hitchens that he had asked Senator Pat Robinson why he wouldn’t support some moderate civil rights legislation. Robertson replied…

“I’d love to help the colored people, but the bible won’t let me.”

When I point facts like this out to conservative Christians, my aim is not to be arbitrarily hostile to their faith, but to help them see what many moral-minded and well-meaning people-journalists, scholars, activists, and others including Christians, are trying to say about the nature of conservative religious traditions, usually Christian ones; that they often are havens for concealed racism, political totalitarianism, male chauvinism, xenophobia, corruption, abuse of women, and gross ignorance….

What I am hoping is that people can have wonderfully spiritual experiences in or out of religious traditions without all this detritus of the primitive human mind. Why? It retards humanity, creating, destruction and pain; extending from the small, as in personal relationships-like mine: my being rejected by Amber’s family for my spirituality and intelligence (in lieu of blind, fundamentalist obsession) -to the large: environmental degradation and war on a planet-wide scale.

The problem is that a lot of the prejudices inherent in the conservatively religious, stem from one or another bible interpretation, as shown by Senator Pat Robinson’s statement above. This means that as long as people do not find the divine in their hearts, but they find it in this or that church, or the millions of variations of the church; interpreted for them by misleading preachers and clerics-or they find it in the bible alone, mistrusting their own hearts, the ignorance will continue along with the debasement of humanity as it has for centuries.

Einstein spoke of conscience. He thought it was the faculty to use to build one moral base; the way to go in deciding how to believe and live. But, he himself was attacked because his views of the universe did not coincide with those of the conservative faithful. Imagine that; one of the human race’s most compassionate and intelligent members being attacked for his honest, heartfelt, and harmless views. Who is the dangerous entity here?

I, myself, stopped going to church because I could no longer justify communing with fellow Christians who reflected these deleterious and cruel states of mind and supported conservative politicians like Nixon, Reagan, and Bush. These “Christian” politicians and those that supported them were either mean-spirited, or their policies were, and many (certainly not all) of the Christian people I have known have-in many cases and quite often- been politically and sentimentally hostile toward the poor, the addicted, people of color, “the third world”, and social-welfare and educational programs that were designed to help the working class. Another reason was, I realized that the god in the bible was far less compassionate than I am, a thought that I am still afraid to utter, but which is true. And finally, even after trying several times recently to find a spiritual home in the Christian faith, I found myself repeatedly disappointed by things the preachers said which betrayed a lack of spiritual depth, gross ignorance, a lack of compassion, and even a recklessness in what they didn’t realize was dangerous leadership in words-which I knew was going to cause fanatic neurosis among the weak-minded where blame for the Jews is concerned as well as in seeing demons where mental retardation was probably the actual phenomenon in evidence.

What really bothered me when I stopped going to church at eighteen, was that the church-goers almost always supported every corrupt war my government was involved in, and they supported the death penalty. My belief is no Christian can support anything like these travesties, if for no other reason than Jesus certainly would not have. After-all, he is the poster-child for the executed, with Christians wearing the device that supposedly took his life-round their necks. That was always another thing that haunted me(There is scholarly historical concern he may have survived the crucifixion-not to mention the story sensationalized by the Da Vinci Code about the line of royalty in France claiming his lineage-based on the duration he was hanging, the fact that his legs were not broken, and his body is said to have issued forth fluids when impaled, which doesn’t happen in the deceased in such cases, according to medical science).

I still retain my heartfelt beliefs that come from the teachings of Jesus (as I understand them, for I know we did not get the whole story in “The Bible”, and what we got is fraught with error that anyone can see if he cares and knows where and how to look). Love, forgiveness, compassion, and kindness are the chief legacies of the teachings of Jesus that we feel we can prove he stood for and which really matter; the rest is a matter of faith, but where faith causes us to go against what he taught in principle, I feel we must discard. Saying “it’s in the bible” or “it isn’t in the bible” is simply not a worthwhile excuse for racism, hatred of homosexuals, the second-class status of women and the abuse of them, ethnic cleansing, slavery, military interventionism, and refuting scientific laws that bring us closer to understanding the real nature of the universe.

And in the long run-though I am first and foremost concerned with compassion-the elimination of cruelty and suffering, and the saving of human and animal life, the last point-about religion often being an obstacle to science-is perhaps the most egregious crime committed by the faithful against humankind, the other species, and the planet. For in committing it, they block our growing knowledge of how to save ourselves; when they do as the church did in the time of Galileo and Copernicus, and in the modern era, where the indisputable scientific facts of evolution are so often fought by people of faith-who are by the way, not qualified to be tearing apart the intricacies of painstakingly honest and important scientific research.In some parts of Africa, women are being raped to ‘rid them of homosexuality’. In parts of the Arab world-Islam coming largely from The old books of the bible-one can still be sentenced to death for changing religions, women can be “honor killed” for having brought shame to their husbands or his family that ‘abuses’ them, and they can have their noses and ears cut off. Who can deny this comes from conservative religion?

The Reverand Pat Robinson said the terror attacks of September 11th, 2001, were God’s punishment for America having embraced the liberal lifestyle and homosexuality. If that is not a thumbs-up for conservative religion, inhumanity, and plain stupidity-and a thumbs-down for reason, compassion, and everything post-dark ages, then I must be blind, stupid and cruel.

Of course I know there are sensible, original thinking, and compassionate Christians and Muslims. Not all from these faiths are fundamentalist and non-thinking. But in other spiritual traditions, I found a much higher level of humanity, from person to person. I cannot remember ever coming across one politically rigid or conservative Zennist or Buddhist-ever. It is virtually a contradiction in terms.

Yet in the ranks of the theists, every other person has rigid, inhumane and unforgiving views, and in Korea, where Christianity is in its infancy and psychology is still running a distant third behind it and Korean Confucianism, not only Buddhism (a deep part of all Koreans), but other forms of Christianity-are bad mouthed and attacked by radical Christians. It is a divisive tool breaking up lovers of different faiths, too-by obsessive parents.

How can a sincerely loving person reconcile this, and the fact that the theist faiths have the greatest history of bloodshed, cruelty, and corruption? My final word on this is, a religion must transform its people, part and parcel, man to man, woman to woman, child to child, person to person, generation to generation-across the board; toward greater love, compassion, forgiveness, kindness, and benevolence-otherwise, it is nothing divine, and everything deleteriously greedy and maligned.

Love, peace, and Joy to You,

Carlo Atteniese

Drawing: A.I.D.

The US Agency for International Development, set up to do what its name said, assist other countries, was often a cover for covert operations. Under the guise of their mission, military aid was often furnished, and not always for good causes. Death squads were funded, as I am depicting here, in the situation that was at its height in the 1980s under Reagan, where leftist revolutions seeking land reform and redistribution of wealth were put down violently, including involving the abducting and murdering of mere supporters of such revolutions, in the name of anti-communism. I did this drawing in 1990, in ink on illustration board.

Drawing: BP & S

At the time of the first Gulf War, I had felt we were pushing Saddam into a corner. This was an Arab leader who-say what you want about him-had a secular nation, in contrast to the other Arab states. He had written plays focused on the success he’d wished to attain. He had wanted to go down in history as a great leader, something enigmatic. That means he didn’t want to die, and had delusions of grandeur, and thus could have been bargained with to save us from war, and the loss of thousands of lives the first time; hundreds of thousands of lives in total up to now.

We probably could have gotten him to withdraw from Quwait with sanctions, and if that were not possible, then after ousting his army as we did, some kind of parlimentary reform in his country should have been attained, for oil-selling-rights, and the waring religious factions there now, would not be planting roadside bombs. Besides, by the time of the second war, his country had no WMDs, which I was almost sure of, and his economy had been devastated, not to mention completely crippled militarily.

Neither war was necessary, at least not the second. We know it was to control the oil in his country, plant the seeds of democracy in Arabia (actually not a bad idea, but I don’t favor killing people -as my father said-so they can vote), and to distract the nation from a Bush White House that couldn’t find Bin Laden. Take heed Americans, regarding North Korea.

Drawing: MT

I sketched a lot with markers and fine ink pens, like Rotring Rapidographs, in high school. Chris Barbaria and I loved going to Pearl Paint in Massepequa or wherever fine art materials were sold, to stock up on them.  Korea is a great place, as is Japan, for art supplies, and in Korea, there are “Moon Bang Goos”, or art and stationary stores in almost every neighborhood.

I do not know for sure why I drew this. I have never been fond of drawing athletes. I guess at the time, I wanted to see if I could draw Tyson’s musculature. I was very much enamored with the human form when I began to develop.

These days I am trying to recapture my skills by attending Mike Stewart’s life drawing studio sessions in Myong Dong. You can find it on Facebook.

This sketch enlarges to quite a large size, so enjoy.

Mideocre, AE Called It

What do you do when it’s bragging to say you ‘know you just think in an original way’
As a defence against people who probably think there is something wrong with you?

What do you do when speaking out is right, to stop the encroaching ignorance ruining everything
But you are in a place, where it’s “not polite”

What do you do when you know it would be you, who would say,
‘Hey, let’s help that lady’ that everyone thinks is crazy?

What do you do when you know it would be you
Who’d recognize Jesus Christ, and The Buddha, too
But the ones who blame you for ‘not believing’ in Him
Are certainly the ones who would pass him by?

You live very, very alone
That is what you do
Until you see angels of perception,
And angels of freedom of mind,
The very reasons for being human
The reasons for humankind

They who possess original living,
They who know intelligent compassion;

Andrew and Robert
Dave and Mike,
Adam and Stewart and Nick and Stu
Joe and Marcus and Joseph and Chong Go
Colm and Eric
And Jeff

So…
Your heart breaks
And you let it,
That’s what you do

For the one you love, who just can’t see you
Without an argument
Which you always lose

How Many Minutes?

When I was in high school
There was the threat of nuclear war

The Soviet Union was our enemy, and they invaded Afghanistan, so I designed a bumper sticker that said
“Hey Russia, Leave Earth for the Humans!”

There were programs on TV about the damage incurred by nuclear blasts
There was Dr. Carl Sagan talking about nuclear winter
There was Red Dawn, and The Day After, and the memories passed down from Mom and Dad, of “duck and cover”

And There were days when I was alone in the house
Or walking home from school by myself
And the roar of a bomb in the distance would scare me for a moment
Until I realized it was the low, droning and inner-ear metallic monotone buzz of a jet-plane…
coming from JFK, that just didn’t sound like a plane, that day

But until I realized it was a plane, and not an ICBM sent over the north pole meant to incinerate us,
I would wonder how many minutes we had, ‘since Manhattan had been vaporized’
How many minutes before I would feel the heat, and the blast wave would be knocking me unconscious, sending my charred body aloft, just before I would became steam

© January 31, 2011 / Al rights reserved

This is a site for aid for animals in Korea

Amber Park (Bitnah Bahk) is the well-loved and indefatigable manager and a teacher at  Toss English, Osan, in South Korea.  She is also the bread-winner in a family of four. To boot, Amber is a talented photographer, artist, and speaker of English as a second language.

I went to see her last night as she was winding down her work-day. She was busy editing an ad for the campus, as well as correcting the errors in an online audio-education program that a departing teacher had made.

When she was finally ready to leave, at about ten-thirty PM, she went into the teacher’s room and turned off computers and the copy-machine, and tidied the room (work the teachers should have done). I said, “They leave these things for you to do?”, to which she replied, ‘Always.’ Amber cares about work, her family, her friends, and a host of other issues, with all her heart.

Amber is a perfectionist. She does everything in the spirit of responsibility, not really personal pride, so much (in fact, I can hardly detect this addictive emotion in her).  

One of her concerns is animals. She nursed a sick cat I had given her to excellent health, spends enormous amounts of money on the sweet pet, and still has time to care about strays.

Regardless of the time or the weather, she will stop en route to wherever she is going, and investigate a homeless animal, and then worry over its welfare when we finally depart.

I shall report more on Amber’s (and my) adventures helping animals in Korea, in the future. For now, I will leave this link to a site that is dedicated to the same honorable task; rescuing our furry friends that are caught with little to scavenge in this ever-industrializing and developing world;

http://www.koreananimals.org/index.htm

Love, Peace, and Joy,

Carlo

New Photos of Korea

I took these with my 35 mm SLR in Dabshimni, Seoul, a couple years ago. The original set is bigger, and includes some experimental shots I made by moving the camera, and zooming in and out while clicking the shutter, as well as changing the settings to make the scene darker and lighter, unnaturally. I might post the ones showing that, later. You can see these in the Korea section of Photos, as linked above in the top menu, and there, as they change onto one another (and I include more of this set there), it is somewhat more exciting to see them because of the slow animation effect of going from one to another.

Carlo 

 

 

 

Love Counseling: No Problem’s a Problem?

Rating: Knowledgeability: 10; Clarity of Response: 10; Timeliness: 10; Politeness: 10; Nomination?  Yes

Comment:  Thanks so much, Carl, for your advice and insight. This is how I was feeling (and what I was thinking) but I guess I wanted some assurance. I’m going to follow what you said, in making sure we continue to grow – having experiences – and not hold each other back and I’m not going to start looking for problems. And yes, I’m fine with you using this on your site. Thanks again for your help, it’s greatly appreciated.

Questioner: Angela

Category: How to Know if You’re Really in Love

Private: No

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Long-term Relationship at a Young  Age

Question:

Hello Carl, I’m seeking some knowledge/advice about my relationship. I’ll be 20 soon, I’m in second year university and my boyfriend and I have been dating since high school (over 3 years). I love him and what we have is near perfect. We’ll be transferring to the same campus next semester and we’ve been talking about living together – something we’re both looking forward to. My concern is that I might be too young to be making such a move in taking that next step and others such as my friends are leading very different lives. Not many of my friends can even imagine being with someone that long, and instead, have mostly random hookups and fleeting relationships. I feel kind of odd because it seems that this is the life I should be living or wanting to live and it isn’t. I’m not envious of them or anything like that but I wonder if maybe I’m not seeing the whole picture. My boyfriend and I have talked about this, asked each other if we have curiosities about others and our answers are pretty much the same. He says he’s sometimes slightly curious but that I’m perfect for him and he doesn’t want to end it just for a new thrill. Should we continue to coast along and see what happens? Or am I heading too deep in the wrong direction? Any help would be greatly appreciated – thanks.

Answer: Dear Angela,

Hi, and how are you, New Friend?

This is the most important question of our time, concerning love in the Western world. There is a sad concept which has become popular, that says we have to soil ourselves in the gritty trenches of multiple relationships on purpose. It is a product of a throw-away culture with a short attention span. The only real reason one should have multiple relationships is by accident. The playboy types may be having fun, and there is nothing wrong with dating several people for a few weeks until you find which person is right for you, but for people to carry on like this for months and years is sad.

I am no prude, but I am not a fool when it comes to love, either. A deeply meaningful, understanding, and productive love relationship between two adults is the most rewarding relationship one will ever have, hopefully. It is a no-brainer to love one’s siblings and one’s parents. It is an entirely monumentous achievement to find a partner not related to you with whom you can experience unconditional love! Wouldn’t you agree?

Your boyfriend is a man. A man is one who knows what is right and wrong and doesn’t bend the rules for his weakness or wanton pleasure. A man also knows that love is the practice and experience through which we truly mature. Your friends cannot imagine being with someone a long time, perhaps because no one around them has taught them by example the wonders and pleasures of a successful, growing, long-term relationship.

If you and your boyfriend love each other and enjoy one another’s company,  you are growing up! Many people do not want the sacrificing, challenging, commitment-oriented conversation which is a relationship, so they delay it by having flings. One can do this, but one can lose years in the process. In my opinion, if you have, as you have said, a “perfect” relationship, I would say, just balance your life by finishing school, being involved with friends and family, and doing sports, traveling, and maintaining hobbies. This way, you two will not suffocate one another.

I think that if you have no problems, the best way to destroy something miraculous, is by looking for them. On the other hand, if you do not love one another, or if you have great doubts coming to you more than once in a blue moon, then either end it, or just keep dating but do not move in together. Doubt is a way of realizing there is something wrong, sometimes.

In conclusion, realize there is no way things are “supposed to be”. Things are as they are, and love is not just a feeling, it is work. Let me know what you think, Angela. I am very interested.

Love, Peace, and Joy,

Carl Atteniese

PS: May I publish this on my website?

http://carlatteniese.com